Too serious too soon dating websites
We have got to be smarter than they are, and I am not desperate for attention, lol but his messages are nice.. In the end ie at the end of his two weeks job on the oil rig while we chatted, he said that he got a cheque for 30,000 USD for a two weeks job and hes on his way to London, but said he was upset as he could not cash it as his license expired and he could cash it only for 2000 USD but he had on him only 300USD.
Please send me his pic before I get anymore involved. It is sad when I have been here for over a good year and now the scammers are coming on here by other's telling them to come here. No he laughed, thought we were all dumb and idiots for being scammed. Different name, but widowed with an 11 year old boy, no other family and is an independent civil engineer working on an oil platform. My heart aches, and I am normally not taken easily. I will never forget the experience I had with him as he was so sweet, fun and kind until I asked him to never ask me for money and then he became furious and talked very hateful. with a 16 yo daughter presently living with an Aunt in Michigan.
We were both on a dating site and he quicky asked me to jump over to Yahoo and use regular email so I set up a bogus account on Yahoo and also gmail, and Installed the chat. Widowed, one child , age 15 however, once we got to regular email his emails were very choppy. He said he was self Employed oil rig engineer in Houston, Tx with 8 men working with him. He even said I was his soul mate, that he was in love with me. Live and learn, but he had a wonderful beauty about him. My guy had the same backstory: owned his own offshore drilling company and currently working on a project for Exxon Mobil which ends in February. Widower looking for a wife & good mother for daughter. I found him interesting at first – he was a friend of a friend on FB.
He right away fell madly in love with me and told me how great a kisser he was. He was born 5/7/60 & his photos (3) showed him as good looking with gray hair.
I did not disclose too much infofmation about myself, so he does have my e_mail and phone number, but he has never called me only sent text messages. James Edmund,the scammer had a Facebooks profile that disappeared and reappeared within two weeks of me chatting to him on whatsapp, he said he was coming to UK from Miami 3pm Friday January 5, 2018- there was no flight from Miami to Gatwick at that time - I checked, he failed to provide photos of being on an oil rig and I asked right at the start, but claimed he fell in love with me ASAP - which is unusual, wrote me a poem, as another victim on your website stated, appeared controlling, trying to manipulate me induce empathy/feeling sorry for him - I kept saying to him I was guarded and don't trust people easily but I preferred it to stay that way until I get to know him (knowing I already googled him and there were discrepancies).
This has been going on for almost 2 months, and I am just having fun, but I am sure he gets mad at my responses and acts like he is ok. This criminal is exceptionally stupid because if a woman tells him, I don't trust people easily I am guarded and he keeps pursuing me, then hes wasting his time, he is not of an exceptional intelligence.
One in particular responded with a comment that she was glad family was important to him. But, they cross us off their lists and go on to the next one. He gave a fake address in NJ, and paid for my flowers with a stolen AMEX account. He has Facebook account under Larry Richards, Larry Richard,and Larry Serdar. I think I've met a scammer too, although he got nothing from me. Currently in Turkey, and due to the ISIS attacks these few days, his equipments was damaged.
No friends showing but several women "liked" his comments. Not sure it is a good idea to tell them about this site. For everyone of us that got out without giving them anything but our time, we are the lucky ones. I just received a call from our local florist telling me that the gentleman with a Dutch or German accent placed the order.